Musings on Spiritual Matters

by Matthew Morine

Conversational Shutdowns

One of the many aspects that I love about my missional team is the ability to have a conversation.  This is not always the case with some groups or people.  What I mean is that people will shutdown a conversation begin wisdom can be developed.  A topic could be mentioned, and sometimes I have seen people shutdown the flow of thought with some comment or statement.  Often something is mentioned like “those people just like…..”.  There is a judgment call, and instead of continuing to work through the situation the talk just stops.  The judgment reigns and no one continues to think.  You see this often.  Why are they not coming to church, well “they are just…unfaithful.”  This is great, but there is a deeper question.  Why are they unfaithful?  A church is not growing, and someone in the conservation says, people just do not want truth.  This is great, but once again there is a deeper conversation, of why do people not want truth?  Too often we have conversations in the church but do not go deep enough.  We settle for a shallow answer.  There is a art to dialogue that people must learn.  If you stop the conversation too quickly, you will not understand the essence of the situation or the problem.  In life, answers are great, but questions are from the wise.

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About The Author

Matthew is originally from Nova Scotia, Canada. He has a beautiful wife named Charity and a precious baby named Gabrielle. He has graduated from the Brown Trail School of Preaching, Heritage Christian University with his Bachelors of Arts in Biblical Studies, Lipscomb University with his Master’s of Arts in Biblical Studies and his Master’s of Divinity at Freed-Hardeman University. He is presently working towards his Doctorate of Ministry at Harding Graduate School of Religion. His articles have appeared in the World Evangelist, the Highway to Holiness, The West Virginia Christian, The Christian Echo, The Firm Foundation, Church Growth, and the Gospel Advocate. He enjoys hockey, golf, boxing, and chess. In his spare time he enjoys reading numerous genres of books. Also, he is working on climbing all of the 14ers in Colorado. Matthew is the Pulpit Minister for the Castle Rock church of Christ.

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