Musings on Spiritual Matters

by Matthew Morine

Losing the Art of Care

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Some of the best mentors I have had were the most caring and pastoring people.  Bobby Pinckley and Burnice Wesbrooks were some of the best ministers because of the great ability to care for people during the difficult times of life.  I was thinking about this yesterday because I was doing a funeral for the local police chief, and I was thinking about caring for people.  As a minister, you sometimes believe that being a good one is leading a great program or leading the church into the future or preaching great sermons, but this is the measure that preacher’s have.  Most members like a minister to walk with them during these difficult times.  The visit to the hospital is still important, the call to check in with a members is important, and the note to encourage is important.  I believe that the young people coming out of the schools see this sense of caring as a burden.  They want to be in the dirt in real mission.  But this is wrong, real ministry is walking with people during these times.  We talk about priests a lot, mostly in the sense that we are all priests, but there is a the sense that the minister is a priest as well.  I still remember walking into a hospital room with Burnice, you could just tell the family felt better.  He has been with them for all of these times, and Burnice would pray, and the people were so thankful.  I still remember walking into a hospital, a member was going to be taken off of life support, and I was scared.  I never did this before, but there was Bobby, standing there, and yes, it was going to be ok.  He was there for me as much as he was there for the family.  And it was going to be fine because the Bobby has been with the family before and walked with them through these times.  As ministers, we can forget that the most powerful aspect of ministry is being with the people that are hurting or celebrating.  When you are there for those big occasions in life, you are there at the most important times.  As new ideas come and go, never forget the need to just care for the people.

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About The Author

Matthew is originally from Nova Scotia, Canada. He has a beautiful wife named Charity and a precious baby named Gabrielle. He has graduated from the Brown Trail School of Preaching, Heritage Christian University with his Bachelors of Arts in Biblical Studies, Lipscomb University with his Master’s of Arts in Biblical Studies and his Master’s of Divinity at Freed-Hardeman University. He is presently working towards his Doctorate of Ministry at Harding Graduate School of Religion. His articles have appeared in the World Evangelist, the Highway to Holiness, The West Virginia Christian, The Christian Echo, The Firm Foundation, Church Growth, and the Gospel Advocate. He enjoys hockey, golf, boxing, and chess. In his spare time he enjoys reading numerous genres of books. Also, he is working on climbing all of the 14ers in Colorado. Matthew is the Pulpit Minister for the Castle Rock church of Christ.

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