Musings on Spiritual Matters

by Matthew Morine

Why Church Members Stay Immature

http://www.mountaininterval.org/photos/images/05-roll/01-denali-from-reflection-pond.jpgThroughout a church member’s life, he or she will have numerous experiences.  These experiences will run from the positive to the negative.  Some church members will grow through these times while others will stay immature.  What is the difference?  Why are some members, elders, ministers, growing into a deeper understanding of the nature of the church and one’s role while others seem to never learn the lessons from experience?  Why do some church members repeat mistakes over and over again?  What is the key to maturing in the church?

Often people feel that experience is the teacher in life.  People state that through experience people will learn valuable lessons.  This is not the case.  Experience is not a teacher, but merely provides the classroom.  The teacher is reflection.

This is consistent with the nature of God.  After God created the world, he did more than rest, he reflected on his world.  God stated, “It is Good.”  God reflected on his experience.

Reflection is the difference between church members that never learn and those that grow.  Elders that reflect are elders that improve the congregation.  Elders that continue to go through the motions without reflection will repeat the mistakes from the past.  Church members will continue in habits and choices that are destructive without proper reflection.  Reflection is God’s tool for growth.  Without reflection, church members cannot learn the valuable lessons that God is teaching through experience.  Reflection is the teacher in life.

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About The Author

Matthew is originally from Nova Scotia, Canada. He has a beautiful wife named Charity and a precious baby named Gabrielle. He has graduated from the Brown Trail School of Preaching, Heritage Christian University with his Bachelors of Arts in Biblical Studies, Lipscomb University with his Master’s of Arts in Biblical Studies and his Master’s of Divinity at Freed-Hardeman University. He is presently working towards his Doctorate of Ministry at Harding Graduate School of Religion. His articles have appeared in the World Evangelist, the Highway to Holiness, The West Virginia Christian, The Christian Echo, The Firm Foundation, Church Growth, and the Gospel Advocate. He enjoys hockey, golf, boxing, and chess. In his spare time he enjoys reading numerous genres of books. Also, he is working on climbing all of the 14ers in Colorado. Matthew is the Pulpit Minister for the Castle Rock church of Christ.

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  2. Rick Kelley says:

    Matthew,
    Thought this was one of your most insightful posts of recent months. It has stuck with me, and I am proud to quote from it (giving credit, of course) this evening when I speak on “hearing a sermon,” cautioning us against “shallowness” in hearing God’s word (cf. Lk. 8:13).

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